You want to serve them also. Ive just started that. My husband changed jobs. Profit Podcast. Just say no and you get up and you walk away because thats the ultimate leverage. I look forward to seeing you on the next episode of In the Venn Zone. Youre always worth more than you are acknowledging yourself for. Yeah, its very weird because I didnt have any specific expectations that I was even laying out other than this general huge impact type of thing. If they dont want to pull their wallets out, I have free content from my YouTube channel thats in support of the book and thats Youtube.com/andrewkap. Im going to make an assumption now and Im going to assume that there are certain people that are reading the conversation now and even agreeing with me by saying, Theres no way Im doing that negotiation, because they dont want to risk blowing the deal up. Andrew is the author ofThe Last Law of Attraction Book Youll Ever Need to Read, a number one bestselling book in its category that Forbes has recognized as one of the 21 books to read in 2021. We were walking up a steep hill and I started a conversation. Im happy to be here and ready to go. You could write on a piece of paper and tear up the pieces, and actually put them in an order. Not only as a means to enjoying the moment but also as simultaneously a means to sending that communication out to either the universe or your subconscious mind, whichever one you believe in more. Im in the best shape of my life, waking up happy and fulfilled. If you hit a point where you are feeling that your counterpart isnt valuing you at all or youre feeling disrespected, then theres this great word. Are we tricking our vibration to connect with the universe? Its like, Whoa, thats a lot to throw away. And sometimes working till 4:00 AM and really grinding it out. But then, and Im borrowing this term. Yeah. The hook of all this is theyre going to write every single thing out in the present tense where if they did read it to someone, the person could not tell whether its going to happen or did happen. There's a reason you keep trying all the programs. Oftentimes that discomfort on the other end of that is something glorious but because your ego doesnt know how to negotiate and doesnt want to risk what it might be, it keeps you stuck in place. It wasnt even a breakup in person or a breakup over the phone. Certainly, Im not saying is of yours. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. And this is a song. First 30 seconds, youd be like meh. Their ego knows its okay for them to get there. We talked about the time-lapse method. When people email me, Im actually the author writing back, whereas some people theyll never expect to hear back from the author. I was very intentional about how I communicated my message, because, it sounds a little pretentious, but I dont view this as a book, and Im not an author. After discussing his background, which includes losing both his company and his serious girlfriend in the same week, we talk about how he was able to ,,, . And its really cool because the amazing growth that weve seen in each others lives as were doing this, has been miraculous. In this episode, we talk about tapping into gratitude to create an effective, everyday routine. Here are some of the beneficial topics covered on this weeks show: Links Mentioned: The person you recommend it to is not going to regret it. But 90 seconds, 120 seconds. If Im going to write something, how do I contribute to the marketplace in a unique way and actually leave my footprint, versus just being another guy, because then whats the point of writing the book? How to Structure Your Nonfiction Book, How to Write a Book Chapter That Captivates Readers (The Open Loop Process), How to Become a Published Author: Your Complete Guide to Every Publishing Path, How Do Book Royalties Work? Gravity of the Cosmos ManifeSTARS (Testimonials) Watch on. The husband had all the data and all the information. When you acknowledge that its about the relationship, let that door open, and all the possibilities are there, now you just got to be able to think about what it is that you want out of those possibilities. Its what Ive done personally. Youre making an impact not on my life through what you teach, but on the lives of people who I am around and who I am influencing as well. But for the most part, Ive made the conscious choice to focus my business just around this. That was why I was asking. You can be grateful for one area of your life and will invite good things from other areas of life that you werent even focusing on. That same enthusiasm and energy is going to carry over into the gratitude when youre reading the future items as well. The law of attraction can help you address that. Your programs are amazing. And if you give people the opportunity and express it the way you have, then youll get more referrals for your business than you are right now, for those that are listening. It was only years later where Im deciding, What do I want to do next in business? I made a decision, I need something to do where Im not going to be candid and Im not going to get bored. To whatever measure you can, at least accept the fact that youre always worth more than you ever are acknowledging yourself for. And I do also do a podcast, but I cant give you any specifics on income that might be bringing in. Heres the thing that I love about it. Something I will write more about in the future is the upcoming Gravity Bridge. In the sense that the way youre coming across will make them relaxed enough to ask for something that they would not normally ask about that they needed, that if they didnt have, they will resent five months later. Now Ive got my feet to the fire that I better deliver in that way. Anything that you can, I guess, to include other people, have a partner, have a buddy, someone to help you and keep you accountable. Theres always like, Ive got to meet that standard. Its what you think about and what you focus on manifest into your life. Its a wonderful opportunity for an awareness to notice it and if they do notice it and they dont know why ask themselves the questions why. Answer the question. A composer. GRAVITY OF THE COSMOS Manifestation Method Cheat Sheet Inspired by content from: THE LAST LAW OF ATTRACTION BOOK YOU'LL EVER NEED TO READ By Andrew Kap Copyright 2020 Awesome Marvelous Inc. - All Rights Reserved. I do want to say that one of the things that you mentioned a little bit earlier, and I want to go back to it. That goes beyond winning and whether youre dissolving a relationship or entering into a new relationship. Thats K-A-P. Thats where I have interviews with law of attraction experts. There are a lot. Thank you very much for sharing that story. >|>f7]EZ?'KA,|T+LuR4 Theres always something more for you. Theyre both in their 70s so when youre in your 80s, and you look back at this moment, what do you want it to look like? Is that something that you either think, well, Rob, I think youre off base here? The way I teach it is someones going to write a list of fifteen things that theyre grateful for. The book was featured in USA Today, in an article. Joy to me isnt just a result. And then youre delivering on that in the later ends where it makes more sense, and theres a richer texture to what youre hearing in the end, because you intelligently, hopefully, set that foundation in the beginning while simultaneously making that beginning still consumable, still entertaining, still easy to take in and still easy to enjoy. Its like, Andrew, isnt that the whole point? You werent saying this with gritted teeth. And I would meditate and let it really pump me up and remind me of what Im trying to do with this book, because therere not only hundreds. A lot of this was just learning. By that same token, through fixed mental patterns or whatever else that might be, a lot of us are holding it away from us. And theres no rules. Something is happening when you focus with gratitude on things that you want. So, hes had a front row seat to me writing the book, publishing the book, all the five-star reviews piling in, all the sales piling in, all the emails, all this stuff. You have well over 1,000 reviews on Amazon, along with the thing with Forbes, and Yahoo. But if you want to talk to me, here are my rates and well do this. You can have somebody who is going to compost the shell or turn it into a piece of art. This equation says that gravity is a force that two objects with mass exert on each other simply because they have mass. It is on Apple books. We are so grateful for you that you are here sharing your most valuable asset with us, which is your time. Within six months, everything is different. All of a sudden, you notice people in the office are talking to you a little bit better. If someone says that their back hurts, I dont get a commission by saying, Hey, check out DDP yoga. Because its done great stuff for me, and I know it goes well. Kindle paperback, audio book. Imagine youre trying to manifest a job promotion and you focus on it every single day. When you facilitate a different perspective, you invite a different result. I can do ten minutes a day. Research out of Cornell suggests that 65% to 70% of negotiations are win-lose negotiations. Not only does it serve in the sense of owning your power in a negotiation. Is part of it that, I got my journal here. I was losing words. Its an evaluative process. Its a gratitude method. Anytime somebody is voluntarily involving you in a process, that is your indicator right there that you have value because were self-interested beings. He was featured in Forbes as one of the 21 books to read in 2021. But you have other ways and bonuses that they can receive. Andrew learned about the Law of attraction in 2004 and four years later he had an epiphany about it. -- Based on the #1 Best Seller: "The Last Law of Attraction Book You'll Ever Need To Read." This channel will provide fun and unique . And so, one of the things that we focus on with our clients is showing them how they can make hundreds of thousands or even millions of dollars a year with just a few thousand sales with using their book. People are like, How does it happen? If you look at us under a microscope, even though we look and feel solid, were vibrating. And maybe the community could communicate the missions better, maybe they couldnt. By the time youre on negotiation ten, not only did all those other deals in and of themselves work out well for you, but youre such a higher leverage point of power with who you are and how you show up in the world. One person can say, Ill take some of this yoke because were supposed to get an equal amount, when they only care about the shell and the other two people dont care about the shell. I am a composer. Ill teach new methods. You will let inspiration come and youre still going to do work but your action will be inspired. Interesting. She was going through a nasty divorce, nasty separation. For anybody thats listening to this, whether they believe in whatever their idea of it is or not, you can believe in the power of gratitude. I had an enthusiasm, and I had myself pumped up. And whether its 90 seconds or three minutes or five minutes, I just describe all the things that Im grateful for. I hear that you took valid data points. Have you recognized that? Whats going on? We had a hard conversation, which I would hate to hear myself back in the day because I was as guilty as anyone else. It all comes down to what can I do strategically to appreciate this? Whatever it is, it is going to impact you. I can go five minutes a day. And for me, understanding this, or at least this being my understanding, what do I do to fix this, address this, to bypass the ego and access that more powerful subconscious mind? Of course, you have a YouTube channel. And so, is part of it, just so Im clear because Im going to do this. The way by which you do this is by finding a gratitude or visualization exercise that you genuinely enjoy. Cheers, everyone. If Im giving value in the book, thats going to pave the way. Its a little pricey because Im so busy. Universally, people say they boil it and they cut it up, or they scramble it and they divided it into 1/3. Yeah. Its like, If you get a discount on something, we got grandfathered in on cheap internet. That was something Im like, Im thankful for that. Didnt work out. Barry Taylor, who was a professor of mine when I was at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, bought $200 worth of groceries one time for me and my daughters. I have a link. And I do think that theres a very artistic, creative part to that, unless youre writing a manual or a textbook of some kind, which clearly, youre not. Hes making more than what he would have likely been making even if hed stayed in the old job from before because he had that change in his thinking. The book has enjoyed continued success, including hundreds of 5-star rave reviews, #1 Best Seller status in multiple categories on Amazon, and a growing YouTube channel devoted to it. If you were thinking in a negative way, they read that in you immediately, and then they respond in kind. And by the way, they will buy from you sight unseen. Youre trying to give me this book, and its got all these methods. Most people hopefully have access to clean water. We have another great guest for an episode of the Publish. Andrew Kap holds one goal above all others through his various projects: Genuine and Sustainable Impact. When you have more confidence in yourself, it gives you that runway to be more curious. So, for those that are listening, books are sold on covers and titles because people dont know what they have and have to make a judgment call based on what they see. Are you a consultant in this way? Five of them are from your present. Im absolutely going to be doing that gratitude, that five-minute gratitude, what would you call it, process? It is being taken care of and regulated for you. How come they start to get results? It is on Audible. Its innate. That is a very, very simple methodology. I believe you are your own guru.. Yeah. It can be about money, health, or anything, and then you write something from your past that you are grateful for. Its important, especially because a lot of our audience is smaller and mid-sized companies. Im stubborn, indignant, and upset enough where maybe I can go all-in for a change. When I say all-in, I dont mean all day, every day. And its going to play on you to stop you from doing what youre doing. One of the things that Blair Dunkley talks about is safety versus comfort. Youre resetting your mind and your focus. It was something where I was enthused. But more in the context of people, they get those big ideas when theyre in the shower, not when theyre pulling their hair out, trying to force it. So, Im a huge proponent of taking action. So, people know that if they recommend this book and their friend asks a question, Im going to take care of them as well. Im unhappy about that. This is how were built as human beings. Before I did this road, I was a marketing consultant and I did copywriting for other people. Ill do whatever I can do to get out of my own way. And I mean, we can talk about this from a marketing perspective. Thank you for being here. This is the fine line that we walk, this is the high wire act. So as long as you feel good about anything, youre inviting good in everything. stream For all their ego knows is, theyre going to get rich, and all of a sudden distant family is going to come out of the woodwork and sue them for their house. Yeah, no, I love that. He got it and it was with his dream company. If you think about it, the books only four bucks on Kindle. You then write something about your future that youre grateful for. This isnt a weight training book, this isnt a nutrition book, its a law of attraction book. You should take action. And thats a threat to their survival. 02:15 In his book, Andrew addresses why people get excited about the law of attraction and begin to get results but still quit. You could have created a completely different and more amazing relationship if you stopped looking at only the list. Its almost like when we buy a car. When you look back, what do you want this to be? It was featured in Forbes, in an article. It is what it is.. One was the time lapse. When you know what youre trying to attract through the various different techniques that Andrew talks about in his book and what youre trying to attract and you have clarity on where youre trying to go. By implementing joy and by finding reasons to feel joy, youre inviting it more. How many people wake up and have to say, Let me inhale. I do have one big product on the backend, which is a 90-day product that walks people through the methods. And its a simple gratitude process where youre going to write down 15 things that youre grateful for. And then they lose their job, and then within a year, theyre making that money again. You havent gotten to the future thing yet, but you write it in the present tense. Listen to this informative Publish. Once you know that you want or you think that you want something from somebody, your emotions are fully engaged. The Law of Attraction like you've never heard it before! And it just naturally makes you as the referrer feel better. My apologies to all of my amazing Harvard professors. And I think that does have a lot of legs to it because I can say it right now. This force - now . Who knows? Its obviously doing things for others. Maybe the first thing in the list is a present, followed by a past, followed by another past, followed by a future. And its a threat to their survival. Theres a recognition that things arent perfect, but what you want to do strategically is be more grateful and put more focus on the good. Theres no rules to this. I said, I am grateful for that. I said, This hill is steep. And Ive always thought of the law of attraction as having that obvious spiritual element, which I am in agreement with, and have, I think all human beings have a deep need for that meaningful connection with God, a higher power, et cetera. Andrew is the bestselling author of The Last Law of Attraction Book You'll Ever Need to Read. Your brain, your subconscious mind is the greatest supercomputer ever. We never missed a day because its fun. The person on the other end is going to see through it and feel something off. Thank you for the update. Obviously, The Last Law of Attraction Book Youll Ever Need to Read. By being grateful and appreciating what you have, you invite more situations, circumstances, reasons, and excuses to continue to feel gratitude, which is another way of feeling good, which is another way of attracting more good. And if someone really wants extra, theyve got the YouTube on top of that. Im taking the Gravity of the Cosmosnow. So, I dont have a lot going on right now. Rob Kosberg here. Some things have done amazing but they still have not even come close to equaling the power of the human mind. But I also know that you dont get rich just by the royalties from writing a book. 90% of my life is gone. Gravity of the Cosmos: Advanced Level 90-Day Guided Program ($2,997 Value) Feeding The Ego A Steak-Flavored Salad: 6-Week Training Course For Managing Your Fears and Doubts ($497 Value) The Ultimate Abundance Meditation Set: Guided Audio Sessions in Money, Relationships, and Health ($110 Value) Maybe its something that we still havent discovered that we can see, feel, taste, or touch. And it depends on the persons personality, which is why I put a number of methods in the book, because I understand any one method on its own is enough as long as the person enjoys the method. Whether its overarching for objectives for your business or your personal life or specific to individual negotiation, when you have that clarity, then you know, This isnt the right person. I think thats probably a good place for us to end. Its all about finding what works for you that you enjoy individually and taking it that way. What about your heart thats been beating in your chest every single second of every single day since before the day we were born? Not only that its been there you every single day, but its pumping blood, nutrients, and oxygen to all these other parts of your body, which are also serving you. Theres a social currency to recommending something to somebody else thats going to help them. You could read it aloud. Youre doing great. Christine, if I may, you did something interesting and Id love to teach your audience the method that were talking about here. The fact that you can notice and acknowledge it is what fuels it and reinforces it. I am glad to have you. Let me exhale. No. We think about it as, If you win something, that means Im losing something. Versus it being an overall relationship and you cant win a relationship. You need to agree with the terms to proceed, 253 N. San Gabriel Blvd., Unit B, Pasadena, CA 91107, United States, Teaching Sales Techniques Through Books featuring Brandon Bornancin, Getting New Clients with a Book featuring Chris Miles. When the book sells 50,000 copies, Im putting it out there. I appreciate you so much. In my YouTube channel, I explained it in 60 seconds. Helping Consultants, Coaches, & Entrepreneurs Become Best Selling Authors and Get Featured on TV and Radio GUARANTEED! That makes so many more dynamic possibilities and such a stronger more efficient when, for lack of a better term, for both parties as you continue to move forward with longer, better, more productive, and efficient deals. It gives them the comfort and the space to engage with you and get a deeper and more profound, important, long-lasting, resilient negotiation and arrangement thats going to be healthier for a lot longer time hopefully. How do you divide it in 1/3? Im giving someone an example. I feel pretty safe, and this isnt live anyway, so Im not going to waste, but I feel pretty safe that Andrew isnt going to be a boring guest or hes not going to care about delivering value. So, I think the book has done a great way of setting a precedent and setting an expectation, that my job isnt to set the expectation, its just to live up to it, because its already done that for me. Its all about, what do you bring to the table as to who are you showing up as that will create the invitation for them to be the most harmonious match? Its amazing. We have a conscious, and we have a subconscious and in the middle, weve got that ego, which is stronger than the conscious mind, but nothing compared to the subconscious. Christine, thank you so much for having me. Absolutely. I realized that Im not a clinical psychologist, and the definition isnt exact but I always explained the ego in the context of us having three minds. It came through to the people receiving the communication and they saw it as valid. Thats a big deal because when you dont do that, then your ability to negotiate is limited. % Profit. Some people like visualizing. Its definitely a ripple effect. And youve expressed that in a really cool way. The fastest version off the top of my head is I learned about the law of attraction years ago when I was sixteen. We can forgive that. She even sees and pinpoints the color, Theres one in the color I want. Im like, Oh my gosh. It feels a little bit like that sometimes. Id like to get your thoughts on that. So, Ive made it abundantly clear that if you recommend my book, youre not going to regret it. Im seeing you manifesting your success. Im going to be happy to engage with the customers, happy to respond to emails, and be into it. I thought, Maybe I can finally permit myself to write a book that I would have wanted years ago. I didnt think much of it. Action is required. 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